Sunan Ibn Majah · Hadith 1971
The Chapters on Marriage - كتاب النكاح
حدثنا عمرو بن رافع، حدثنا هشيم، عن أبي بلج، عن محمد بن حاطب، قال قال رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم " فصل ما بين الحلال والحرام الدف والصوت في النكاح " .
It was narrated from Muhammad bin Hatibthat the Messenger of Allah said: “What differentiates between the lawful and the unlawful is (beating) the Daff and raising the voices (in song) at the time of marriage.”
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